Hard to say. But with mental focus and a conversation with your photographer you might get the clarity you need. It is better to think these things through first than to schedule an appointment when not ready. The lives of all are complicated and knowing what your priorities are is most important. Don't put off documenting that special occasion because it will never happen again. Being kind and considerate to those who are serving you, makes for a much nicer world to be in. In fact, common courtesy is the ticket to happy world!
Picking up the phone and starting the dialogue is a good beginning to getting the thought processes going. Takes notes and FOCUS! Ask questions freely. Know what your budget is. Know what you want and your intent behind the photo. How far do you want to drive or are you willing to drive? Will you make good on you decision to have your photo taken? Alot of work goes into the photography session that not all understand. And being clear about your intention is a wonderful thing to do!